Reputation, Perception & Legacy

What the people who work, live and play with us, says about us when we are not present builds our reputation. It is from what they "report" to friends, colleagues and family that a picture is created about who, what and how you are. What they report comes from their lived experience with us, the reality of who we are and what we are striving to become.

What people report about us, is based on their rapport with us.  Rather than trying to manipulate perceptions about us -we should put our energy in developing healthy interpersonal relationships and growing our own character.

Some leaders buy into the old adage that perception is reality so much, that they spend enormous amounts of resources (time, energy and money) to create a favourable image about themselves, that ultimately is not real. What a waste of time! Firstly: The only reason why you would do that, is because in reality something is awry in your character and behaviour. Secondly: Reality "leaks" from your circle of colleagues, friends and even family. -In a very short time everybody knows the real reputation from the created perception. (And talks about it.)

That just adds negatively to your reputation.

Legacy is not just about how you will be remembered one day, or something you leave behind when you die. You leave a legacy whenever and wherever you leave! We are all busy living a legacy right now. I believe that in the long run, legacy is to a great extent the sum and culmination of your reputation.

Myles Munroe once said:"Let your life write the speech of your death." (Munroe M 1992. Releasing your Potential. Destiny Image Publishers)